Thursday, June 10, 2010

Musings

Sometimes I focus on the "If I's"...

"If I was a rich girl..." (Gwen Stefani)
"If I were a boy..." (Beyonce)

But I AM ...
... alive
... creative
.... captivating

Sometimes I focus on the "If I Could's..."

"If I could change the world... " (Eric Clapton)
"If I could turn back time..." (Cher)

But I can ...

... create
... love
... give
... live
... write

Sometimes I focus on the "should have's"

"Should've said no" (Taylor Swift)
"Should've been a cowboy" (Toby Keith)

But I will ...

... be the woman God made me to be
... publish my novel
... love my family well

(The cowboy thing does sound fun though)

Monday, May 24, 2010

An Open Letter to Extreme Makeover Home Edition


Dear Extreme Makeover Home Edition:

The people most qualified to write this nomination for Nashville flood victims Nathan and Hollie Birckhead are currently in the trenches of flood recovery on behalf of this precious family, so please bear with me as I try to do justice to their amazing story.

From the moment Nathan and Hollie Birckhead first saw the house at 6205 River Court in Brentwood, Tennessee they knew it was the one for them. The oak tree lined river behind the home and rolling hills beyond it were the epitome of peacefulness. And peace was certainly something the young couple needed. Nathan's mother had died of cancer just prior to him meeting Hollie, Hollie's older brother ("Chuck") had cancer (He was recovering from a 16 hour surgery/radiation) and the Birckheads were dealing with infertility issues.

Yes, a little peace would be nice.

Soon, Nathan and Hollie became pregnant with TRIPLETS! Imagine their excitement.

Sadly, Hollie's beloved brother, Chuck, died of a rare cancer 18 weeks into her pregnancy. He never met his nephews and niece, one of whom, "Charlie", bears his name.

In December 2007, the triplets (Charlie, Jake and Kaylee) were born eleven weeks prematurely with delicate lungs and fragile immune systems. Jake was on oxygen for the first 8 months of his life and Charlie continues to require daily breathing treatments. The triplets were essentially quarantined to their home for the first two years of their lives because exposure to other children/germs posed too great of a risk for RSV (which would send them back to ICU at best).

Finances were tight too. Mounting medical bills, Nathan's school loans, diapers, wipes and formula purchases multiplied by three were taking their toll. And that peaceful, idyllic river that ran behind the house? Well, it now seemed like an occupational hazard considering their three babies would soon be crawling and then walking....

They tried to sell the house. Twice. But to no avail.

Imagine keeping a house ready for realtor showings with triplets! Whew! And guess what? Completely unexpectedly, the Birckheads were expecting baby #4!

About that peace....

December 10, 2009 - Sam was born
December 17 - Hollie turned 36
December 18 - Nathan and Hollie celebrated their 4th Anniversary
December 20 - The Triplets turned Two.

Four Children. Four Years. Wow!

On the afternoon of May 1, 2010 Hollie and Nathan Birckhead returned home after a wonderful morning out alone with their five month old son, Sam, thanks to a "Parents Morning Out" program that had cared for their triplets for a few hours. The parents put the triplets down for their naps and started watching weather reports about flash flood warnings in the area.

The river in their backyard began to rise. At first, they saw no cause for alarm. They'd seen the water reach their backyard time and time again. But, they soon realized this time was different. The water was rising quickly and it wasn't stopping. All of a sudden, their house was surrounded by water - all the way to the court.

Time was running out. Nathan carried all three toddlers at once from their attic bedroom, waded through raging waters and got them to dry ground in the middle of the court. A neighbor watched with the triplets while he went back in for the baby, Sam. Hollie frantically stuffed duffle bags with the triplets' medical supplies - nebulizers, breathing treatments, formula, etc., and neighbors waded through water to help her.

They loaded their five month old and the duffle bags into their vehicle and as Nathan returned to the house for "peapod sleeping tents" (a safe place for the triplets to sleep that night) Hollie had to keep moving the vehicle to higher and higher ground so that the water wouldn't sweep them away.

Nathan arrived with the family dog swimming up to the car right behind him. (Both Hollie and Nathan lost their shoes wading through the hurricane strength waters.) They made it out. But barely.

Hollie still has nightmares about what would've happened if Nathan had accidentally dropped one of the children. The current was so strong, they would've drowned. It was really a miracle that he was able to carry all three of them at one time in those conditions. The garage level of their home was flooded and neighbors told them the first floor flooded within minutes of their departure. The water didn't recede until Tuesday, three days later.

Today, the house is in ruins. A Williamson County inspector said it was the worst flood case he'd seen in the whole county. They are staying with friends and their belongings are divided between dumpsters and friends' garages. They have no idea what things survived the flood and what didn't. The family's financial situation is dire (medical bills still loom from the triplets high-cost preemie care, they have no flood insurance).

But, the family still feels blessed. They have each other and the amazing support of their community, church and friends.

Ty, can you please help this precious family create a safe home for their four young children and their aging/ailing parents?
Sincerely,
Angela Fox

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Creative du Jour: Susan Gamble

In this photo, Sue Gamble is painting "live" in the narthex of Christ Community Church as one of two featured artists chosen as part of a recent project sponsored by The Arts Guild. Sue is the mother of five children whom she homeschooled for 18 years. She is also an art teacher at New Hope Academy and sheo teaches adult art classes at the Williamson County Rec Center and in her home.

How do you envision creativity?

My definition of being creative is stepping into God's creative process and participating. Our culture is mostly left-brained, and verbal. We like things neat and tidy. Creativity is messy. It's thinking outside the box. It is process rather than product. It is freedom and wildness and sometimes emotional. If God has made us in His image, which includes creativity, then we should prepare for an adventure.
How do you see yourself in light of this picture of creativity?

I was born with a strong creative bent and my tendency is to be all these things. My quiet nature as a child lead me to try to fit in, and be more like other people. I was not very successful, and I didn't like school. As I got older, of course, I gave up trying and over time, delighted more and more in what God has made me to be. I am so grateful that God has set me in this life as a mom and artist and art teacher. I almost can't believe that I get to do these things.

What is your favorite creative outlet?

Since I was young I wanted to see how EVERYTHING was made and to try the process myself. So, I've tried almost everything. Right now I work mostly in fiber arts, stoneware pottery and oil painting. I like the painting best. For me, a journey through the process of a painting parallels life and is very engaging and exciting.
Can you tell us a little bit about your creative journey?

My dad was an artist so I began this journey early. I knew in school and elsewhere that I didn't think like other people. I liked art class but I didn't know I had ability. I was going to drop out of school with a diploma after 11th grade, because I hated school, and all I needed was my mom's signature. She didn't sign it and finally allowed me to take an art class at the end of 11th grade. After 5 minutes of drawing the teacher said, "where have you been?" The next year I took all art, to my total delight. At the end of that year I applied to my high school art teacher's college for art education. That was the beginning. After school I worked as a potter and art teacher and graphic artist. I got married, had 5 children and proceeded to home school them for 18 years. That just ended last year. I had NO time for anything except kids until I started teaching art at New Hope Academy 5 years ago and painting about 4 years ago. When I painted when I was young I was usually frustrated. But now, since I have read so many books to be able to teach well, I feel very comfortable painting and I delight in it.

What is your favorite creative outlet?

Since I haven't painted for very long, I have a lot I want to experiment with and try. I always think my next paintings will be better than the ones I'm on now. I also really enjoy teaching kids and adults to do something they think they can't do. Usually they are much better than they think they are and just needed some guidance. I'll definitely continue teaching.
Where do you see your creative journey taking you in the future?

I feel that I'm living my dream. When I was busy with my kids, etc., friends told me that if I didn't use my creative ability I would lose it. I really wanted to invest myself in my kids so I risked losing it. I didn't lose my ability after all! I'm very glad I spent my creative energy mommy-ing and teaching my kids, and I'm glad I have time and freedom now to step into God's creative process and participate.
Thank you so much, Sue, for sharing your vibrant gift with us.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

A Few of My Favorite Friends

Check out The Cocoa Tree's website where you'll see photos of a few of my favorite friends!Left to Right: Diana Beach Batarseh, Shacina Beard, Jennie Schut. Love. Love. Love these ladies.
The photo was taken at a photo shoot for the book Chocolate Covered Friendship that I coauthored with TCT owner Bethany Thouin.
While you're at the TCT site, order up some yummy truffles. Check out my friend Lauren's online review of her faves!

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Let Your Fingers do the Gluing!

I'm curious. How many people actually use the phone books that gnomes faithfully leave on our doorsteps each year? Well, here's an idea: Phone books are PERFECT for spray adhesive projects (and glue stick gluing too). Just put what needs to be sprayed or glue sticked on a miscellaneous phone book page, spray or glue away, remove the project and close the phone book. That particular page is forever glued shut and hundreds of new pages await your next projects.

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Stir It Up!

I heard the following verse quoted at a Martin Luther King, Jr. gathering
yesterday:


“Therefore I remind you to stir up the gift of God which is in you
through the laying on of my hands. For God has not given us a spirit of
fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” II Timothy 1:6, 7 NKJV


Indeed, God has given us all gifts. The speaker implored, “Don’t wait for someone to stir them up for you.” How inspiring.

How are you using your creative gifts? Your gifts are unique. No one else can paint just like you, write just like you, sing just like you, [insert your gift here] just like you.

"Swirl" by artist Catherine McElroy

How are you stirring it up? The Bob Marley song, “Stir It Up” came to my mind. I thought, wouldn’t it be fun if that catchy song was relevant to this passage? I’m not familiar with the lyrics to the song, so I looked them up online. Oh my. Marley had something totally different in mind. Made me blush!

Even so, I encourage you to Stir it Up!

* Artwork used by permission of the artist. Click the link for more information about the art and artist.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Hope for Haiti


"And he took the children in his arms, put his hands on them and blessed them." Mark 10:16. Jesus loves the Haitian children. He is our hope.

Samaritan's Purse is a trusted organization led by Franklin Graham. Their "Operation Christmas Child" program is dear to our hearts.

Click here to donate online through Samaritan's Purse.